shaycode:

I’ve convinced myself the 2016 election isn’t even real at this point. “Please clap” and Jeb giving out turtles that he carried in his pocket?? 38% of Florida voters thinking Ted Cruz could be the Zodiac Killer?? Donald Trump saying he could literally shoot anyone and he’d still get support? Marco reading mean tweets?? Talks of drafting Mitt Romney?? Bernie dancing to Hotline Bling?? Rand flipping the media off?? Ben Carson’s rap ad?? John Kasich making a bacon Snapchat filter?? Hillary dabbing for votes?? Like, just imagine all the stuff that’s gonna be put in the history books

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Mbti how to comfort each type

edgybrecht:

Estj- This type will most likey not want any type of comfort, they will want you to help them solve their problem. If you have any rational advice to give them, do so, they will appreciate it immensely. 

Esfj- This type may be hard to comfort in any way besides giving them a drink and trying to talk through things. Ask if there is anything you can do to help directly, don’t do anything crazy for them, within reason. Also remind them of their strong abilities.

Isfj- Pay attention to them, give them gifts or show acts of kinds towards them. In most cases they will not want to talk to anybody while at the same time they really need to tell someone their problems. Be open minded and receptive to what they need as well as taking into account they may only want something from you.

Istj- This type is often times very stubborn and will not want any help, do them a favor and give them space. If they ask anything of you do it, as long as it is within reason. Sometimes the best way to help this type is to ask them if its ok to talk to them about how they are feeling. 

Esfp- Be careful when helping this type, they may open up once and then never do that again so be receptive to what they have to say and give hugs an stuff like that, Gift are always good, but asking them to talk to you is probably the best thing you can do for them.

Isfp- It will be really sad when this type needs comfort they will be isolated for the most part and only close friends will be able to contact them. If you are that close friend be very open to why they have to say and do not offer logical help, be emotionally comforting and remind them that they are smart and try to boost their confidence

Estp- Help them to forget, go out and do things with them and don’t let them fall into a drunken stupor. Ask them if you can help and make sure to be there emotionally because that is what they will want.

Istp- This type will not want comfort or at least they say that. They may push people who are very close to them away. Give them plenty of space to sort things out on there own, If they do by chance ask you to help them or need something of you ABSOLUTELY LISTEN. 

Entj- This type is probably never going to ask for your comfort and they won’t appear to want it at all. They would rather sort it out on their own. If you somehow are close enough to the Entj to talk about emotions do so. Offer them hugs and support in any way possible, but expect to be rejected, or surprised when they actually accept your hug.

Enfj- Ask them about everything, they are an open book most of the time, just ask. Offer emotional support like hugs, gifts and the ability to talk to them about anything. They will appreciate that you care. Also remind them gently that they must take care of themselves first and then the world.

Infp- Be there emotionally, thats all really just be there for them and give them hugs. remember that the are arguably the deepest type besides Isfps so there problem may be much deeper than that on the surface. Remind them that they are a unique person worthy of other peoples affection and that they are way too nice.

Intp- They will not ask for your help or for comfort, ask them about how things are going and remind them that whatever happened is just an act of chance and should not be taken up on them personally. Balance how you help them with emotional support and logical solutions, act like a sound board for them to bounce ideas off of. They may act similar to the Istp, so give them space if that is what they want.

Enfp- Give them lots of hugs and listen to what they have say, they will often hide their feelings so keep asking about how they are really doing, but do not be invasive. If they do tell you and let their guard down, you must be there for them after that moment for a long time because they will expect you to betray them, earn their trust. 

Entp- Much like the Estp do things with them, help them to forget and don’t let them drink no matter what. They will tell you how they are doing as long as they trust you a certain amount. If not be patience as they trust you more you will know how to help them best. Oh they will also come of as very arrogant and cocky claiming they are invincible if they are underdeveloped. To get by this ask them for a hug or tell them that their insensitiveness is a weakness. One of the harder types to help as you can see.

Intj- They will come of as not wanting help or telling people they are completely fine when they are not. Thing is they may actually be fine so don’t push yourself onto them. Chances are they don’t trust you enough to comfort them, simply put. If you are in the rare position they trust you a ton. Give them hugs and emotional support. Otherwise they are perfectly capable of dealing with things on their own.

Infj- This type is harder to help much like the Intj they need to trust you before you can help them. They may secretly want your help so much they are internally pained. Pay attention to the small things they do and say. Remind them they are unique and that any experience makes you stronger afterwards. Lastly, ask them if they need a hug and walk through their problems with them, they will appreciate this and possibly let you “in”.

Keep in mind these may be different for each person, i went off of the functions to describe these. If you don’t know what functions are and are curious search around other blogs about your type and try to learn about your functions and how they shape your behavior from a distance. I will be posting more and if this does well i will release one on how each personality is molded by functions briefly. Written by an Intj

MBTI Types: Coping Mechanisms